Check list women want in a man

Guys if you have just come out of a long term relationship all the dating rules have been rewritten and your going to have to have a helping hand to come up to speed. Another women knows how women think.

Maybe the title I have chosen should have been “what women don’t need” which is what I will first cover first.

Don’t leave her guessing if your going to be late please give her the courtesy of calling to let her know you will be late.It is just good manners to be either on time or phone if your going to be late.

Women are flattered when you ask her for her mobile no. and this shows interest, but here is the warning you need to ring her in the next day or two. If you make contact her in a good space of time after meeting her, she will be thrilled that you have taken the time to call her.

Let’s talk about personal grooming:

Before I give you my best dating tips  and before you leave your house you will need to run a critical eye over yourself in the mirror. Yes I am serious, that blokey look where you don’t shave doesn’t appeal at all to us girls! It has been proven time and time again most impressions that you have of someone are made in that 10 minutes.

• Hair clean and combed if you have dandruff use an appropriate shampoo to get rid of it;

• Nasal or ear hair is a turn off and goes hand in hand with wax in your ears and teeth that need a clean or a trip to the dentist, so get plucking and cleaning;

• Nails that are clean and have no grease under the nail

• Clean shaven and smelling nice, get rid of the old spice or any other aftershave you have had for donkeys and lash out and get something you like. The woman behind the counter can give you great tips for you to smell good.

If you don’t feel comfortable buying clothes by yourself, invite someone that will be honest with you when you try things on! Big tip leave the tattered AC DC tshirt in your bottom drawer, you will just need a good shirt and a nice pair of jeans that are well cut.

Yeah baby, looking good smelling great we can now speak about what girls like.

• We love it when someone compliments us but this needs to be sincere as we can tell a fake

• Even in this day and age where equal rights manners are at the top of the list, open doors and pull chair out from the table so she can be seated

• Easy conversation – meaning what you do to get someone to talk and let’s face it at the start getting to know someone is hard work.

I love using open question as this keeps them talkinge.g. I have always wanted to work in that line of work, what did you need to do to get started? or Can you tell me a little bit about what you like to do when you’re not working, favourite hobbies what you do to relax One of the best dating tips I was first given is to always ask a question about the person you are with as people normally like talking about themselves.

The idea behind open ended questions is to draw conversations from the other person but this needs to be done naturally. If you seem confident that is a great way to make her feel relaxed and will have the conversation flowing.

This is also a biggy, dont expect sex while everything is so new and your spending the time getting familiar with each other