Searching for Mr. Right: 4 Alternative Dating Suggestions

Dating ideas for a gay man or a straight woman to use aren’t really all that different.

One of the most nerve-racking things about your search for that special relationship, gay or straight, is the dating process.  However, the dating process can also be, and should be, one of the most exciting parts of finding the right relationship.  Dating can seem dull at times because too often we resort to the classic dinner and a movie idea.  Dinner and a movie can be a great date, but why not switch it up a bit and really wow that prospective Mr. Right?  Here are a few ideas you can use when getting ready to go on your next date, whether it’s the first date or yours and his weekly date night.

1.  One stand-by date idea is going for a round or two of miniature golf.  Mini-golf is a great way to participate in an invigorating (without being strenuous) activity but still have a meaningful conversation.  Golfing is an intimate enough game in that will allow you to get to know each other while not just sitting in a noisy restaurant.  Regardless of whether you’re great at the game or not, flirting over your putting talents or lack thereof is a great way to lighten the mood.  Just be careful to leave the side of you that might be a touch too competitive at home.

2.  If you live around a downtown area, a terrific date is to go for a night on the town.  A major downtown area always has plenty of different things to do.  Whether you’re going in and out of stores, or walking through the park, the environment around you will provide for a great time, and some great memories.  The exciting atmosphere of the town will also stimulate lots of creative conversation, and is an ideal way to learn about each other.  You may even do something that’s unique to the city, such as a stage performance, check out the skyscrapers, or go to the art museum.

3.  If you both are energetic, you might think about going on a hike.  Most towns have forest preserves or nature centers that are a wonderful place to walk.  The change of scenery will surely be remembered as a fun date and can inspire conversation about nature.  A vigorous walk is great for having the natural environment spark a romantic mood.  You may even bring along a picnic basket and eat together surrounded by the beautiful trees.

4.  Think seasonally!  In the summer, go to a baseball game.  It doesn’t matter if there are no major league teams near you; the minor leagues or watching a local soft ball team can be just as much fun.  In the winter, try sledding if you are in a cold weather zone.  It’s casual, and it requires absolutely no skills. In the spring, pack a lunch and take a long drive to see the newly blooming flowers.  In the fall, I would vote for a football game (playing or watching), but maybe going to a hilltop and picnicking while you admire the foilage might be more the thing for you and your guy.

Dating really can be an exciting part of being in or starting a new relationship.  Establishin a social dating environment is important in order to get to know the other person without introducing any unnecessary pressure.  After all, you might not recall forever that lousy movie you watched, but you’re sure to remember the enjoyment of one of these fun date ideas.