How to Approach Girls -5 Sure Fire Tactics

August 30, 2009 by amabaddate  
Filed under dating tips

What if you could approach girls with confidence and make a natural connection? Are you starting to realize that the only way to multiply your options of getting into a fantastic romance is to learn to meet girls? Think about it, if you never do you are just going to take the options which show up for  you. If this is the case do you find that this leaves you with relationships that don’t meet your needs? If so, and you are truly ready to put a end to your frustrations then here are five proven strategies for approaching females.
•    The ‘ I already know you’ opener.
This strategy is not so much about what you say as it is about how you say it. The idea is to pretend that you already know her and just act as you would if you ran into her in public. Look at it like this, most of the time you end up saying something like: “Hey, what are you doing here?” There is no reason why you can’t say that to a complete stranger as well. Not only that, you can bet that if you approach her with the attitude that you already know her that she will be immediately open to you.

How to Meet at Least One New Attractive Woman..Each and Every Week… For the Rest of Your Life!

•    The insult tactic!
Ok, you have to be a cautious with this approach and make sure that you only use it on a female who might be a open to it. You can say something like: “I bet you are really mean.” Of course she will want to know why and then you say: “Well, I bet you have to be. You have dudes asking you out all the time there’s just no way you can say yes to everyone of them.” Just make sure that you will be able to turn around and make positive. This will make for a pleasant surprise, and using surprise is a great ice breaker.
•    The advice approach
This is a classic, and most often works when you ask her for a ‘women’s viewpoint’. Asking a women for advice is the best way to impress her and you can bet that she will reply you right away. If you are shopping, ask her for an opinion on two brands which you are trying to decide between. Or you can even ask about something you have been discussing with one of your female friends. Something which is interesting and even a bit controversial is definitely going to get her interested in speaking to you.

•    The compliment approach
This will be either your best friend or your worst enemy. The trick is to lay off of the compliments about her beauty and find something of substance instead. look at it this way, she has heard ‘you are gorgeous’ from every man before you. Find anything she is wearing and compliment her on either that, or the way that she carries herself. Anything other than her beauty will be a totally breath of fresh air to a lady who hears praise about how gorgeous her looks all day long.

•    The direct ‘I’m in a hurry strategy’
This one is probably going to get you the most rejections but it can also get killer results. If you are like me like and to get right to the point and wants to increase your options with females, then this is the opener which you must master. The idea is to emphasize that you are in a hurry but that you would really hate yourself if you did not ask her to meet you sometime. Notice that you are asking to meet her sometime and not just asking for number. This demonstrates that you know what you want and gives her a reason to say yes or no so that you don’t have to sweat the maybe. After you have set up the place to meet, then you can her number ‘on the possibility that something comes up’ and end the conversation politely. After all, you have to run right?

Choose one of theseapproaches and do it for seven days, then try the next opener. If you are like most dudes you have a special approach and your own style which really works for you. Doing these tactics one at a time is going to you to find out what it is so that you can get increased results fast. Go and try it.

How to Meet at Least One New Attractive Woman..Each and Every Week… For the Rest of Your Life!

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