Online Pick Up Secrets

Myspace & Facebook are goldmines for hooking up with girls.

But its HELLA IMPORTANT to do it the right way.

Below is a super easy four part model that you can follow.
My buddies and I use this model to routinely meet girls
online and set something up with them offline. This is only
part of the plan, you can get the entire plan by Clicking Here Now!

Rule 1: Make Friends with the Girls AND Guys who have a ton of
        good looking female friends.

Make friends with the people you DON’T want to date
but have large groups.

Remember to be very indirect at 1st when you use Facebook.

Don’t act like a retarded spammer! Go to Myspace for that.

Facebook isn’t “match.com” or whatever, you can’t just begin
sending out messages or invites prating to get lucky based on
numbers. Most people hate the abusers, & you’re gonna just get
your worthless ass banned entirely from Facebook.

Start off by making easy contacts……friends first.

Be certain that your Facebook profile looks normal. Be subtle.
You never want others to fell like you’re a creepy player type.

The goal is to snowball ur results & enlarge ur connection potential
by friending people over time who happen to be friends with many more people.

If you start off hitting on the girl you are attractted to from the beginning,
you sabotage your successes with this short term strategy.

Just think for the longer term. The moment you start to be friends with many of the
cool people, your online social circle naturally expands which makes
it a hell of alot easier to meet women. It also makes you look like
you’re a social person, which puts women at ease.

Secret Number Two: Be INDIRECT about Friending the Girls You Like.

Simply friend request the girl & include a little message
with your request!

It just has to be something like, “Hey, I just figured out we’re
each buddies with julie & I see you love to snowboard too…
have you ever gone to Vail?”

The genius of this firend request is that I left a question
INSIDE the request. To answer that, she will feel
obliged to accept my friend request.

Also, people just like ammassing friends on Facebook. Most of us
measure our social success by how many friends we have on Facebook.
Everyone wants BIG network, most girls will actually WANT to accept
your friend request, at the very least to make their friend count
bigger.

Secret Number Three: Use the Tools.

You’ll find tons of neat applications that can give virtual drinks,
videos or games to buddies or you can also make up your own
surveys or polls.

An awesome thing to use is the Create a Group Tool.

Start your own group! Start it for anything you are
really interested or passionate about.

Guys, just try not to start a group based on the “World of
Warcraft” computer game or about how hot Paris Hilton is.

Be sure to make the group something women can relate to and might be
interested in.

All of the sudden, BAM! You got a little catnip to use to invite
any girl into your create and an excuse to start the conversation.

These are only four of the secrets or rules by the way. If you’d like to see the complete
system, including the exact messages to send to girls, Click Here Now.

Rule 4: Always Be Escalating & Making More Opportunities

Facebook is a VIRTUAL tool.

These friendships don’t REALLY exist anywhere except on a huge server in
a super cooled room at a data building.

You have to try to get these relationships in the real world with events that you
can invite people to.

Most women on Facebook have an “everything that happens on Facebook stays
on Facebook” attitude. This is exactly where U come in.

Every so often try to organize a happy hour or wine tasting at a really
awesome bar. It doesn’t matter, just something cool for people to participate in.

By doing this, you’ll meet these girls that before
only existed on your computer. There is only so much you can do online, you really
gotta do most of the attracting offline.

In a nutshell you should build up a big social network, make some
connections, and come up with a reason to meet in person in order to
get the girl super attracted to you.

Even so, it doesn’t hurt to send some fun and playful introductions to
women you don’t really know too well and see if they bite. It really helps if you
have a super interesting and cool profile.

Just make sure your existence on facebook is known……

Write on people’s walls…

Send a few virtual drinks…

Send some good karma…

Use the “Flirtable” app…

What do you do once you meet them offline? Well, thats
a completely different story. The biggest problem guys have
in meeting girls offline is the fear of approaching women. You
can easily overcome the fear of approaching women in less
than 30 days at http://www.destroyapproachanxiety.com

How to Approach Girls Without Saying a Word

You will really like this technique, its super simple
tactis that makes approaching women as easy as pouring a jack and coke.

Usually, us men are too nervous even to approach a woman due
to the high amount of uncertainty involved in the act. If you
get extremely anxious when you approach girls, there happens to be a
step by step system that will cure you in about 30 days.
You can find that system by clicking here.

Anyways….Most of us are total weaklings. Think of the
thoughts in ur head when you want to go up to a girl?

“I’m probably not what she wants”
“What if she has a boyfriend?”
“IS she gonna be attracted to me?”
“She is probably way too busy to talk to me.”
“Will this girl yell at me if I say hello?”

I know there’s about 4000 more issues that go through ur
head when you get ready to approach a new girl.

If you tend to get nervous or totally freak out when you try to approach her,
it’s due to one silly little thing:

UNCERTAINTY.

U don’t really know how the girl you wanna meet is gonna respond
and you get scared because the outcome MIGHT be negative!

Enough of this wuss behavior! You will never have to be afraid
about a bad reaction again because I have the solution.

The trick is so simple, ANYONE can use it! Its even a one hundred percent
fear free trick.

Its Called the Secret Eye COntact Opener and we found this technique
at http://www.destroyapproachanxiety.com

++++The Super Secret Eye Contact Opener++++

Obviously, making eye contact is important, but something cool
happens the moment you catch eyes with another person.  You become
COMPELLED to respond to them in some form. With women, you can use
eye contact to see if she is up for meeting u.Really, in a sense,
you can use it to get her to open or approach you!

This is how its gonna go down………

Whenevre you spot a girl you wanna to meet, LOCK ur eyes on
her!!! I’m not joking, just look into her eyes, even if she’s not looking
at you.

You see, when people are out and about, they’ll look around
so that they’re aware of their surroundings. This is an unconscious thing
& everybody does it. Soon, the chick ur locking onto will look around
to scan her surroundings to make sure she won’t be hit by a bus.

Now,when she gets to you, her eyes will invariably meet yours, &
you two will be locked in eye contact.

The moment this happens, just SMILE at the girl.

If she smiles back at you, guess what?She is comfortable with you meeting her. 
But if the girl does not catch your eye, just go on to the next girl you think is hot.

Ok, when the girl flashes you a smile back, say “Hey!” If she replys, you are so in! 
Just transition into your opening line. You’ve got one of those things, right?

I mostly use this technique in low energy situations, like grocery
stores, coffee shops, health clubs, etc. Also it can work just as good in
bars (if the light is high enough so she can actually SEE you!).

Most of the time, right after u smile, the chick herself will actually
say “Hi!” before you say anything at all. When this happens, the rest
is easy.

When you go out this weekend, do this to every girl you want to meet. 
just.I swear to you, you’ll
be amazed by the results. If you’d really like to destroy your fear of meeting
and approaching women forever you really should check out this
Destroy Your Approach Anxiety Website.

Advice for Dating and New Relationships

Free Video Reveals #1 Love Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …

As a coach, giving advice on dating and relationships is my passion. It’s understandable to feel skittish, especially if you’ve been hurt before. You want things to start out on a stable footing, but you feel like your past starts to creep in. You still feel like you need to know if they’ll stay committed. Wanda from Arizona asked “How do I know they’ll stay committed to the relationship”?

In my free 7 Secrets video, I explain how your concern could be address from a couple different vantage points. Your concern could be related to finding clarity on the values you desire in your mate when you Make the List, or it could also fall under the building your Self-Esteem category.

But primarily as I see it, I think this concern falls under the lesson on learning how to Make Your List. You see, you may have had a partner who strayed, or wouldn’t commit and you may have been hurt deeply and yet when I coach you on how to make your list, you’ll also amplify your desire and gain clarity on what you want and why you want it. Writing the list is a great focusing tool. Focusing brings clarity and intentionality in what you desire. In making your list you’ll find out if you’re sending any mixed signals and then you’ll sweep them out.

The way I teach the Law of Attraction and transformational principles, you’ll understand that you have the creative license to write the details to your own specifications You’ll also learn how to determine what in which areas you won’t compromise.

It’s great to know that these principles also work in all areas of life, not just in love.

You’ll learn much more about how to Make Your List AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Your Most Burning Questions about Finding Love

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist, writes… …

I’m frequently asked how to find love when there’s been so much failure in the past. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m in my mid-40′s. I’m just about to give up on love. If I haven’t met a good one by now, will it ever happen?

If you can desire it, you can achieve it. Find out what belief you have, what story you’re telling yourself that’s not true and make it your business to shift that belief.

Consider the Universe is a gigantic intention fulfillment machine. When you ask, and it’s not coming, you have a dominant belief or vibration about it being difficult. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How do I bring in the certainty in receiving? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. How do you work on the positive expectancy, the believing, knowing, the certainty? One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

Play with the energy of make believe and feel it as real. How will you feel when… … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you hold hands and tell jokes … you sing songs in the car on a road trip etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

Dating Consciously – Poise and Confidence Are Big Hitters

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist, writes… …

Here are some dating tips and insights to help you get back into the game, especially if you’re dating after divorce. In the last of our series on Dating Consciously, “

Looks Aren’t Everything,” let’s talk about the all important external part of appearance. Here are the results from a survey taken by a popular dating. Choose the most important features of a partner

• Personality 30%
• Sense of Humor 14%
• Smile 12%
• Looks 11%
• Eyes 10%
• Hair 7%
• Education 7%
• Physique 5%
• Career 3%
• Popularity 0%

Personality ranked Number 1 by a long shot!

What does that say about a person? What’s clearly established here is that it’s not a physical attribute at all, but an internal one.

Appearance is often categorized as an external representation of a person. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging attitude, warmth and authenticity are the traits that win out over Physical Appearance. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we get started.

What are characteristics of personality? Confidence. The ability to communicate openly in a easy and engaging manner. What are inherent traits of self-confidence?

1. Knowing what you want.

2. Feeling assured that what you want is within your reach.

3. Knowing you’re worthy of what you want.

4. Under most circumstances you remain non-plussed.

What I’m pointing to is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearance. Many people I know getting back into the dating game get stopped with the externals of the game.

The internal dialog stops you from ever getting back into circulation: “I’m no longer a spring chicken,”"I can’t compete with the hotties,”"The singles scene seems so superficial.”

Putting your best foot forward, being ready to shine, always having a ready, genuine smile, are the winners of the day. You can meet Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a walk, anywhere. Don’t limit yourself by what others are saying.

From the perspective of a Law of Attraction Coach, the essence of what you emanate is attracted or drawn right back to you. If that’s so, (and it IS) doesn’t it makes sense to get dressed with a smile before you go out of the house? It becomes a matter of practicing the traits of self-confidence; being clear about what you want, the ability to have it, knowing your worthy of what you want, and being calmly expectant that the timing is all in perfect order.

“To be in the Dating Consciously mode, you need to ENERGETICALLY dress for success”.

To win the dating game, you want to remember it’s your choice. So choose it to be fun.

Why not write a little summary of an after-the-fact successful date. Write as though the date already happened and you’re really pleased with the outcome. If you don’t have any dating prospects, script a pleasant outcome from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You’re creating your entire life by your beliefs and your thoughts, so why not get creative and deliberate about it. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Your enjoyment of life is directly related to how you perceive every event, situation or outcome. It’s not always easy to see that our interpretation of an event is what makes it good or bad. Empower yourself by taking 100% responsibility for your joy and self-expression. Nobody else has the power to make you feel bad or good, for that matter. It’s always an inside job.

Remember, dating is a game. Relationships are a game. Games are meant to be fun and a win-win for everyone! And remember to enjoy the journey.

 

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