Leading Expert Shares Dating Tips For Guys
August 11, 2009 by amabaddate
Filed under dating tips
More often when your friends are sitting around having a drink is when they come up with all their best one-liners to help you approach girls. It’s then they come out with all their ways how to ask a girl out! Did you ever wonder why it is that they are sharing their tips with you instead of making the moves on their own? It could be that they have more confidence in your ability to score than in their own. If they have that much faith in your ability to approach a girl should you not have as much or even more?
First impressions are the lasting ones. If you are somewhat negative as you approach a girl, chances are it is going to be short lived. One of the easily overlooked dating tips for guys is how you look, especially when you meet the girl for the first time. Girls like to feel comfortable and if you are dressed in a manner that is far to the right or the left of the establishment you are in your appearance will violate her comfort zone. When going out with the idea of approaching a girl dress neat, dress clean, and dress in accordance with the local dress code. There are some places where spiked purple hair is appropriate and some places where a three piece suit is appropriate. Seldom are they the same place so do not confuse the two.
One liners work in movies and occasionally in other places. But for the most part a polished one liner is no way to approach a girl, especially if she doesn’t know you from ‘Adam’. A far better way to make your approach is through a mutual acquaintance.
When you see the girl of your dreams, look to see who she is with. It may be that you know someone at the table, and if so strike up a conversation with them first, working on achieving an introduction. Don’t worry if the mutual friend is simply a ‘friend of a friend’, or someone you’ve only briefly met, you can still use them to get you an intro at the table. A creditable introduction will get you a lot farther than the best one liner.
If the cliche one-liner is the biggest culprit in dates never getting off the ground to start with, the next failing is not knowing what to say after the one-liner. Girls are looking for someone with some depth to them. You may be the most good-looking thing in the world but if all you provide on your date is something to look at, and little else in the way of conversation, you might as well have stayed at home watching TV. One of the key dating tips for guys is to have some things in mind to talk about and be ready to listen as well. You are not there to lecture but to share thoughts and ideas. Remember you want to get to know her as well.
And if you strike out, acknowledge it cheerfully and move on. There is no need to burn bridges. Remember she just might be the one you need to provide the next introduction as you practice how to approach a girl.
Extract taken from full review and article at Double Your Dating Review
