Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend Worth Keeping

A good deal of men are looking to learn a couple of tips on how to get a girlfriend.  It really isn’t that challenging to have some success with women.  Yeah, you’ll have to learn how to meet girls and how to ask a girl out, but once you get the basics handled, getting a girlfriend is a bit more work.

First, don’t just settle for a girl because you want a girlfriend and she just happened to be the girl you are dating at the time.  This is a really bad reason to start a relationship.  It’s not fair for either you or her.  To have a successful long-term relationship, you need to be the kind of man that is clear about what kind of girl he wants to spend his time with and stick to those principles.

You might have to improve on yourself to attract the kind of woman that you’re dreaming of.  The supermodels might not exactly be rushing to bash down your door if you’re the kind of guy that just plays World of Warcraft in his parents’ basement all day.

Do two things.  First, start by listing the five biggest things that you would like in a girlfriend.  These can be whatever you want.  A few examples could be “emotional openness,” “artistic,” “a sense of adventure,” or even something as simple as “long legs.”  The critical part is not lying to yourself.  Next, write down a list of five things that will not put up with from a woman under any circumstances.  These might be qualities like “too emotionally dependent,” “not faithful,” “secretly hates men,” or  “always has to be right.”  These two lists can help you determine if a particular girl is right for you.  Spend more time with girls that show the qualities that you want in a girl.  She could be your next serious girlfriend.  On the same note, quit dating girls that show the qualities that you don’t want to have in a girlfriend.  This will save you so much time and spare you so much drama.  I can’t recommend this enough.

Second, you probably have at least a vague idea about what your perfect girl is like.  This might seem a little crazy, but try to envision what it’s like to be her.  What kind of man would she find attractive?  How would you describe him?  Do you measure up to this?  Although, you should never try to be a person that you are not you might need to do some work on yourself if you just don’t measure up.  You may need to overcome some personal obstacles and challenge your limits to naturally attract the girl you really want.

You’ll eventually find a girl that you want to enter a serious relationship with, and when this happens you can take things to a more serious level.  Just about anyone can get a girlfriend.  You can use these tips to ensure that the woman that you do chose to be in a relationship with is a girl that you really enjoy and one worth keeping.

Eight Practical Tactics for Talking to Girls

Are you ready to really increase your dating options by learning to speak to more women and even ask for dates with them? You may be finding out that initiating conversations with girls is the only way to give yourself the experience which you really need to get what you want in your dating life. So what are the most effective ways to speak to women and truly get them interested so that you can get more dates? Well, you may be learning that you are not getting the results you want when it comes to communicating with women, but don’t sweat it because you are about to read the eight most practical tips for doing so.

First, you need to quite worrying in regards to what women feel about you and decide what you need instead. It is a waste of effort and a self-esteem killer to ponder everything a girl says and does trying to figure out if she wants to date you. So what? Decide what you desire and go get it. Once you do, you will learn that most women are attracted to this type of confidence and they will be much more likely to date you.

The second thing is to talk to everyone, including girls you would not want to date and even men whom you see in public. If you wait to initiate conversations only when you see a women you are truly attracted to, you can be assured that the ‘all or nothing thinking’ is going to reduce you to a realsneaker-breath. However, if you initiate conversations with everyone you run into you’ll keep your conversation skills up to par and you are certain to be ready when your ideal women comes along.

Third, concentrate on asking her questions and getting her to talk about something which she likes to talk about. You see, people are more interested in you if you are interested in who they are than if you are attempting to be interesting to them. In addition, getting her to talk about what she likes as opposed to talking about herself will help her to relax. After all, if you are a stranger to her it is not a good idea to get too personal right away.

Fourth, tell a story and make it interesting and even humorous. Everyone loves stories and they LOVE to laugh and if you have one ready you can be for sure that she is going to be interested in it. Just make certain that you have broken the ice a bit first and that the story you tell has something to do with what you are already discussing. You can have a few stories memorized in advance and make a transition like: “Hey, that reminds me of…” Then tell the story with excitement and watch the magic.

Fifth, get close to her and show her that you are confident with being close to her. This means that you make physical contact from the getgo, like a light brush on the arm as you are speaking about something. This might seem somewhat uncomfortable and you might want to attempt it with some people you already know first. However, touch is a sure fire indicator of interest and a good way to get people’s attention.

Sixth, laugh at her jokes and be enthusiastic about what she is speaking to you about. This is best achieved by body language as opposed to words and will come off more genuine than if you merely said it. What you must understand in relation to women is that they are more feeling oriented than we are and will respond to you showing them a good degree of excitement. This will also persuade them to talk more and will help you both to relax.

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Seventh, be a the alpha male and let her worry about what she thinks of it. This does not mean that you are inconsiderate, it means that you show your power as the alpha male. Women are much quicker to overlook a guys ‘imperfections’ if he can show her that he is ok with them. Many men make the mistake of being ‘nice’ and bending over backwards to please a woman. It is better to demonstrate to her that you are a bold man who can protect her when the times comes.

Finally, if you are interested in her then ask for the next meeting instead of the phone number. Think about it, you just met her this woman and you know that you want to see her again. Why bother with the number when you can just ask her out on the date? Believe me, either way she is going to see that you are attracted to her so you might as well let her see that you are bold enough to go after what you want. Again, boldness and definiteness of decision is a thing which girls find good in a man. Once you have a date set, ask for her digits so that you can get a hold of her in case something changes.
If you commit to practicing these eight techniques one by one until you get them down you will earn plenty more options when it comes to dating. Then you can be with the women who you really want to as opposed to having to stand around and accept what you can get. Good luck.

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