Relationship Advice for Single Working Mothers
November 6, 2009 by amabaddate
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …
Susan from North Carolina contacted me because she’s concerned that she’ll never get a new husband because she is convinced no one wants to walk into an already established family. If this rings true for you or someone you know, you may be convinced of that, but it is just not so. I know several women who have toddlers, teenagers, and everything in between and they’ve still acquired a man that loves them as well as their children. He’s somewhere. If you contain the want, you have the ability to attract this wonderful love into your life.
In my Magnetic Attraction program I talk about the importance of making a list. This is a listing of qualities that you desire in your ideal mate. In case you are feeling unsure concerning creating a lover who will totally love and accept your children, this would be an item you should put on your list. “I desire someone who loves me and adores my children and they love him too”. Let us say that is the creation or desire. Now it is your job to sync with your affirmation.
As a Law of Attraction Life Coach and relationship expert, you learn to purify your affirmation by putting the low level of desire, belief or contradictory vibrations out of your emotional state.
Ideas like “nobody desires an already established family” is an old program that was taught from childhood, adhering to mass consciousness and does not need to be part of your affirmation. It is not even real.
It is essential to understand that you’ve a program running in the background. Your subconscious doesn’t allow you to have your wants achieved due to the previous beliefs that were taught as you were a child.
It is just like a computer. If you have an outdated version of a word processor running and someone sends you a document in a new format, you cannot open it on your outdated machine because the programs just don’t match. You can fix this problem with free Love Advice for Women.
Clarifying your want completely and consciously and moving into the area of understanding you can have it, that you should have it, and feeling as if it’s already on its way. Get the Love Advice for Single Working Moms you deserve today. This mindset places you in the area of being meaningful and intentional concerning your manifestations and wants. Now you’re in the attracting mode.
Fear of Intimacy and Loving Again
October 18, 2009 by amabaddate
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …
Life Coaching for people with self-confidence or self-esteem issues is very valuable in answering this following question. Women seem to suffer the most from trust, abandonment and worthiness issues. Relationship Advice for Women is one way to solve this issue in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to the survey concerning love and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you’ve considering creating love for yourself. Many people decide to keep out of serious relationships. And that is not always the case for a person who’s given up because they’ve continuously failed in the past. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without an intimate relationship. Life can be fulfilled and wonderful with any choice you end up with.
As long as you realize you are deciding that rather than giving up out of frustration that you haven’t created the love of your dreams. You can acquire it all in a relationship and in life.
If you could view yourself from the perspective of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you would be viewing a wonderful, magnificent, illuminated, connected being. Then life starts to occur around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from the beginning what to watch out for, stop us, caution us, and attempt to protect us, effectively having us adhere to their fear and projections of insecurity instead of tuning in to our own energy. OK, I will grant you as simple new creatures we do need support. Fine. But shortly following they understand to eat by themselves, self-awareness needs to be part of the training for the small children.
Well-intentioned adults want to do the best thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only underscores an underlying insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets engraved as a child.
Neurological research now tells us that until we’re 7, we are so open and available to receive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a sort of hypnagogic trance and become amazed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is no wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about a flawed nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we’ve heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t do that. The recurring message seems to be you are inept, you cannot trust yourself, you do not understand what you’re doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They only intended for our well-being. But you can see how simply we have been whisked away from our innate greatness and brilliance.
I recommend that you go easy on yourself and let yourself have a break. First off, it is not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your parents. They were programmed the same way too. You can end the perpetration of low sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything your heart desires.
Do your very best to give yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe adores, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE perfect. And that IS the truth!
Are you Single? Here’s How To Find and Keep Love using the Law of Attraction
October 16, 2009 by amabaddate
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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …
Single people who desire to understand the Law of Attraction to create love often ask me for coaching. These people ask, “Can you create the wrong lover?” The answer to that is Yes and No. Let me explain. You create the “Wrong” relationship based on what it is you say you desire. In other words, your words are saying “I desire a lover who’s fun, caring, and passionate. Someone who treats me well” but your real subconscious intention is something more to the tune of … “I can never meet the right woman. Why do my pals get such an easy time of it? What is wrong with me? Where are all of the eligible amazing women? And so on. So you’re going to end up creating more concerning what you are unconsciously wanting and what you’re expecting to occur. So is she incorrect? Perhaps, is your thought pattern incorrect? The Law of Attraction states what you pay attention to you attain more of. So if you’re not in a relationship and are looking for a love, you need to pay attention to what it is like to be in a love relationship, not the other way around.
A fantastic practice to improve your inherent desires on this is by using a powerful tool that Abraham-Hicks teaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.
You should use this tool when you find you create some negative vibrations and need to continue changing the direction of your vibration and find a happier feeling mindset. When you desire to strengthen your point of attraction because you’ve got a lot of negative energy. Here’s how it works: you need to do this in written form to help acquire the jist of it. I truly suggest that you never cease to handwrite a Book of Positive Aspects. You will desire to give yourself at least 15 minutes for this process.
At the top of the paper put down the area of what you desire a more harmonious vibration set point on. Maybe a subject has caught your attention that you do not desire, you’d prefer to not experience it, or perhaps you’ve attained a good bit of judgment about it and feel bad. Write down what that is. Now notice that you know what you do not desire and the comparison has aided you to hone the intention of what you DO want. Your task is to put down in detail you want. And keep directing your desire to the better feeling thought. Write down lists of what you like about what IS working, what is good, what you have that you DO like, even about the present situation. Look for aspects of your life to be grateful for in the situation and in any outside or related life situation. This will put you to the positive attraction mode. You will attract what you desire instead of its opposite. Try it out for yourself. Isn’t it time you had everything you wanted?
Advice for Dating and New Relationships
September 9, 2009 by amabaddate
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …
As a coach, giving advice on dating and relationships is my passion. It’s understandable to feel skittish, especially if you’ve been hurt before. You want things to start out on a stable footing, but you feel like your past starts to creep in. You still feel like you need to know if they’ll stay committed. Wanda from Arizona asked “How do I know they’ll stay committed to the relationship”?
In my free 7 Secrets video, I explain how your concern could be address from a couple different vantage points. Your concern could be related to finding clarity on the values you desire in your mate when you Make the List, or it could also fall under the building your Self-Esteem category.
But primarily as I see it, I think this concern falls under the lesson on learning how to Make Your List. You see, you may have had a partner who strayed, or wouldn’t commit and you may have been hurt deeply and yet when I coach you on how to make your list, you’ll also amplify your desire and gain clarity on what you want and why you want it. Writing the list is a great focusing tool. Focusing brings clarity and intentionality in what you desire. In making your list you’ll find out if you’re sending any mixed signals and then you’ll sweep them out.
The way I teach the Law of Attraction and transformational principles, you’ll understand that you have the creative license to write the details to your own specifications You’ll also learn how to determine what in which areas you won’t compromise.
It’s great to know that these principles also work in all areas of life, not just in love.
You’ll learn much more about how to Make Your List AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com
“I want to find my ideal partner, how do I free myself from the painful memories and heartaches of my past?? ”
September 9, 2009 by amabaddate
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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …
Donna from N.C. Asked those that heartfelt question. As a Law of Attraction relationship coach, here’s the relationship advice I have for her. Donna, Congratulations that you realize how critical it is to release the past before a love relationship can come in.
The Law of Attraction states “you attract more of what you focus on.” Before we can find and keep love, clearing out the past and healing old wounds is necessary. The past takes up emotional space. It’s impossible to occupy a space when that space is already taken. You wouldn’t dream of pouring more coffee into a full coffee cup. Then why try to have a successful relationship when holding onto hurts or grudges from the past?
You can get online Law of Attraction relationship coaching to teach you how to create emotional space as a way of clearing that out. You want to look at what energy you’re holding about the hurt. There’s a story you’re telling yourself that is playing out as a truth for you. Once you clear out that stuck energy pattern, you’ll be able to welcome in the one who will light up your life..
You may have a smile on your face and be dressed to the nines with a smile on your face, but you’ve got this energy field you’re dragging around that’s draining your energy and killing the possibility of living a happy fulfilling life in relationship~As long as you’re dragging around the past with all the drama and trauma, it doesn’t matter where you go or how good you look, you won’t be completely fulfilled.
You’ll learn much more about how to Make Space and Clearing Out the Old AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com
