Some Thoughts About Saturday Night Fever

April 21, 2011 by amabaddate
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Raise your hands, guys, if you go out looking for a wife on Saturday night. You don’t, do you? You definitely go out looking for girls, but you’re not looking for a lasting commitment. That’s not always the case with the girls, though.

Although we all have our differences, we’re all alike in a lot of ways, too. Relationships are the furthest thing from most guys’ minds until they fall in love. Until then, all they’re after is getting as much sex as they possibly can. If you took a poll of men and asked them if they had ever once thought about solitaire engagement rings, probably not a single one of them would say yes.

Then go and ask a group of women if they have ever thought about princess cut engagement rings. Almost every girl has. Women, whether they like to admit it or not, want commitment from men. Men don’t want to think about it.

The fact that men commit to lifelong relationships with women is a miracle of nature. How does a simple 1 night stand turn into an obsessive love affair? In the blink of an eye, a carefree guy can only think about one woman. He’ll sacrifice everything to be with her. He is completely out of his mind, but life wouldn’t work for us if it didn’t work that way.

There are no doubt biological imperatives in the whole process of mating. Before the age of birth control, if a woman had sex, she was in danger of getting pregnant. As a result, women were never as promiscuous as men. It was too dangerous. Therefore, women always put the commitment of marriage high on their list of priorities. While birth control has allowed women more freedom, it hasn’t changed their more basic need for security in a mate.

Men have never had that much pressure put on them, though. Since they weren’t the ones carrying the baby inside, they had the option of shirking the responsibility. Interestingly enough, though, even if society didn’t demand that men take that responsibility, most men would feel it somewhere inside. Still, before the baby comes along, unless he’s in love, all a man wants to do is get laid.

Enjoy your Saturday nights while you can. You’re taking part in an ancient mating ritual. The girls exchange their girls sweatshirts for their sexiest outfits and the guys wear the coolest clothes they can find in their closets. You dance and flirt and get drunk and if you’re lucky, you get what you were looking for.

You will get away with it for awhile, so enjoy it while it lasts. One day, though, you will find yourself changing diapers on a Saturday night and feeling happy for the privilege. That seems to just be the way nature works, so don’t fight it.

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How To Talk To A Women – With Confidence

April 18, 2011 by amabaddate
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There are such a lot of books, conventions, and special newsletters out there regarding how to attract women, land the woman of your dreams, and so forth and so on and all of them come down to one main observation: Confidence.

All else being equal, it is the assured guy that may win every time all else being equal. That suggests you need to groom and dress correctly and look after all the other basics from personal hygiene to making a respectable livelihood. The basics will get your foot in the door give you an opportunity but they are by no means what will seal the deal. That is the reason why they are called basics…

But of course, life isn’t fair it isn’t equal. People are not equal. Everybody has different strengths and weaknesses. And confidence goes a great distance towards leveling out your weaknesses while highlighting your strengths.

Naturally, confidence itself is a strength. So how to get it if you don’t have it already?

By practicing. There’s really no other way. You have to unlearn what you’ve learned about yourself, and about your strengths and weaknesses.

No one is born assured. ( If they are , they are just born fortunate. ) But everyone learns some measure of confidence, at some point. You need not join the regiment or Navy or have magical one-off experiences ; you just need to practice thru selective confidence-building measures that prime your cortex for success.

Easier said than done, of course but the harder it is to do, the better it’s going to be once done. Accept that.

And, lest it be mistaken, let it be noted now that confidence is not the same as arrogance, which is sometimes used to hide fear, insecurity, and doubt. And there’s no faster turn-off than arrogance with most women. So learn confidence to avoid arrogance and you can write your own how-to book in the form of your very life, a life well lived!

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Discover Ways To Spice Up Your Relationship With Your Girlfriend

April 5, 2011 by amabaddate
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Relationships with those we hold dearly in our hearts can be really fulfilling at the very beginning. But as time moves on it is quite easy to become caught up in a never ending cycle of repetitive behavior. Fortunately there are ways to spice up your present relationship with your girlfriend or any other important woman in your life. This article will be the spank on the head with a cake pan you really need.

The mistake a lot of people make is trying too hard to make a lasting impression. Fair and fine, you will just be making a conscious effort to ensure your partner knows they are greatly appreciated. But when you really look at it this kind of behavior limits you to the interests you both share and does not leave much room for exploration. Within the bounds of trying to please each other we can become trapped in a mentality of pleasing each other beyond what we can handle.

Television and magazines might teach you certain things about women that are not exactly true. Of course women love and hate certain things but this is not always the case. Sometimes doing something a magazine forbade you from doing might actually please your partner. One thing though: just ensure you consult with your girlfriend beforehand. It might later turn out that what they said was true. So to be on the safe side just enquire first.

Romance is a lost art these days. Romance will do you a treasure of good if it is well timed and done smoothly. Taking romantic walks during sunset, sending flowers over to her place, preparing candle light dinner are examples of romantic things you should do once in a while. You could even try using a heart cake pan to make cakes shaped like red hearts.

Travelling is another way of spicing things up with your partner. When you travel as one you get to be alone and talk about issues you would never think of in the hurried trauma of city life. If anything this is a wonderful way of creating lasting memories that will bring you closer. Hate it or love it but a few videos or a picture of you sitting innocently together on kitchen bar stools at a resort will solidify your affair.

Group excursions during which couples go out together are another glorious addition to any relationship. This enables your partner to see you in a totally different light from that she has experienced. In as much as you might think of this as boring it is not. If anything you actually get to foster long lasting friendships with fellow couples.

If you are dedicated to improving your relationship things will actually change for the better. However, if you are negative about it you might end up losing someone who loved you dearly.

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Can Men And Women Agree On Anything?

September 4, 2010 by amabaddate
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Men and women are so different and have such different tastes, it’s amazing that they can live together at all. When there are so many differences, how can they be reconciled?

The makers of TV shows know all about these differences and have learned how to use them in the making of television series. Their writers make characters that have some qualities that appeal to women and other qualities that appeal to men. While a man may identify with a tough leading man, his wife will follow the plot because she sees his sensitive side. While it looks like the man and woman are watching the same show, they are really seeing different things.

In our daily lives, however, there are some things that men just have to put up with about the women in their lives and that women have to accept about their men. What man really gets a thrill when he returns home from a day at the office and finds that his wife has just bought a vase that cost about half his day’s earnings? Home decor accents are not exactly high on a man’s list of priorities in life!

Then there are the men and their toys. From a woman’s point of view, going out and buying a homelite chainsaw just to trim off a single dead branch seems like a tremendous waste of money. She knows that it is going to spend a lot more time in the garage than it’s going to be put to use. The man, however, just can’t pass up the excuse to use a brand new chainsaw, though.

It’s all kind of a comedy, really and that’s part of the reason why men and women can’t live without each other. Life would be pretty bland if women and men had the same kinds of desires. Opposites attract because they complete each other, not because they repel each other.

That’s not to say that there are not many times when men and women are in complete agreement. An adventurous couple that loves an active, outdoor lifestyle will be in total agreement over the purchase of a Schwinn mountain bike.

Sure, the woman might stop to smell the flowers along the way while the man might race down the hill without even noticing them, but both of them are enjoying the great outdoors together. When they get to their destination, they share a drink from the same water bottle and share their stories about the ride together.

To complicate things further, men have a feminine side and women have a masculine side, too. Sometimes it’s the girl who feels the need for speed while her partner enjoys a more leisurely pace, stopping from time to time to photograph the scenery. All of these differences make life the rich experience that it is.

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How To Find And Marry Mr. Right

September 4, 2010 by amabaddate
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If you expect to find the man of your dreams, then you need to be the kind of person that deserves him. Understand what I’m trying to say. Give some thought to your perfect man’s personality and characteristics. Most women are looking for some who is a true prince charming.If this is true, you need to think about what a wonderful man would want in a woman.

Be assured that just as you are searching for an ideal life partner, many wonderful men are searching as well. So the only way to find this guy is to be her. Even if youre not in a relationship right now, you can try to cultivate qualities like selfless service to others. Starting with your family, local volunteer organizations and your, neighbors, those are good places to start.

Practice being kind and generous, so it becomes a part of your personality. Consider that the woman men adore are those who are loving, accepting, and understanding. Men often dont really express their vulnerable feelings to anyone other than their girlfriend or wife, so its important to most men that they can trust you with their deepest, darkest secrets and weaknesses. They need to know that youre trustworthy and wont ever betray them. Men are keen for people to like them for who they are, and will offer them their support no matter what the circumstances may be.

It may also be true that men are looking to be mothered just a little, so most men want a woman that is nurturing and looks out for them. So if thats true, you wonder, then why men marry bitches sometimes might be quite a mystery. An unfortunate reality is that some women work very hard to hide personality traits that do not become apparent until after her wedding. It is clear that the few marriages that do occur for these people rarely last long.

A married woman may have experienced difficulties that embittered her and changed her personality. While some rude, cruel and snotty people do manage to find partners in life, it does not mean that this acting this way is attractive to others. Practice being his dream girl – that’s the way to attract your dream guy.

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